Etiquette
  • If you haven’t already, please read the club rules. This will give you the basics.
  • Let it be known what you are and are not willing to do. Do what you want, with who you want, when you are ready to do it. Remember that honesty is always the best policy, but please be polite and tactful as well.
  • Only do what you are comfortable doing.
  • Be respectful of others feelings and be conscious of your partners feelings.
  • Discuss any inhibitions you may have with your mate before hand. Know each other’s limits prior to attending functions.
  • First time swingers may feel uneasy seeing their mate with someone else. If this happens, talk to others and ask how they handled their first time. Don't let jealousy spoil a good time.
  • Appearance and cleanliness are important, so make sure that your clothes are neat and clean. Perfume, colognes, and after-shave are always nice, but please do not wear so much that you become over powering! Like anywhere in life, first appearances are important..
  • Club Enigma is a non smoking facility.smoking is at the rear of the building.
  • Always practice safe sex.
  • A few drinks can often help everyone to relax, however make sure you never over-indulge. Besides being a performance inhibitor, drunks are seldom invited to get togethers.
  • Bring your own booze.  We provide the mix and munchies, but we do not sell alcohol. Labels are provided for your bottles. Any alcohol left on the premises longer than 6 months will be discarded.
  • Drug use in the club will not be tolerated. If you must indulge, please do it elsewhere.